So if you want to be feared, put on a show. People will tolerate it because they probably need the job, but they won’t like you and won’t give you nearly all they have.
If you’d rather get the most out of your team, cultivate respect by showing some. Find out who your people are. Care about them. Find out what you can do to help them succeed.
"No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite."
"Seek always to do some good, somewhere… Even if it’s a little thing, so something for those that need help, something for which you get no pay but the privilege of doing it.